I was just analysing something (you could say a life situation) and
wondered if things can be ignored or if one pretends things dint happen or don’t
exist will it do you good. Well, for a hurt, healing starts when we accept
something went wrong. So acknowledging, accepting, fixing what went wrong (to
whatever extent you can) and building immunity should be on the to-do list.
Came up with an analogy. If you have a fractured limb, you just cannot pretend
there is nothing wrong with that limb for obvious reasons. For the fear of
attracting attention, you cannot just remove the plaster/bandage - that will
not help you recover. So the plaster is there to protect the fractured limb and
not to make you embarrassed. Even with all the care you take, you may have a
scar to remind you that you had hurt yourself. But if you don’t let the
fracture heal completely you may make that limb vulnerable to more injuries. So
the moral of the story is you would be better off having a scar than end up
with vulnerability for life.
P.S: I had written in one of my
earlier posts that ignoring is sometimes the best way to deal with things…looks
like its not always!
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