What scares people? I think it is the fear of being hurt.
The fear.
You love someone, what if they don’t love you back?
You love something, what if you lose it?
You want to try something interesting, what if it does not
pay off in ways you expect it to?
You want to be happy, but wonder is that really possible?
You want something, you wish you knew if you could want it
and still act cool like you don’t care? Is it ok to want something real bad?
Questions, questions and more questions. Doubts. Thoughts
that go in loops. End result – Paralysis, worry and “what if”s.
Life is like candy crush, there are some rules to play by,
but there is magic too.
It is difficult to be clear about what you want. But unless
you can really see where things are headed, you can’t help bumping into
obstacles.
Just be. Its ok to go wrong, it is ok to fail, it is ok to
take time to figure things out. It is ok to be.
There are times when I wish someone had told me some things
- that growing older is ok. You don’t need someone to “complete” you. No matter
what life goes on. Stop wishing for something else, instead enjoy what you have,
plan in small ways to change in big ways and find ways to be happier. Happiness
is not some place to go. It is someplace to be, right now, right where you are.
The TUT message today (from
www.tut.com) was as follows:
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Pratibha, next time you feel really hurt, really angry, or
really, really upset, and you're sure that even I have been violated, shaken,
and humbled, quick, check and see if the sky is any less blue, the sun any less
radiant, the birds have stopped singing, or the flowers have lost their scent.
I'll wager you'll
find that life has gone on much as before. Too consumed by the powers of now
and the inevitabilities of love, understanding, and eternal life to have even
missed a beat.
Oh-wee-oh,
The
Universe
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So wonderful, isn’t it? J
One more beautiful Gtalk status message from a good friend read...
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Dis age is never gonna come back..... So fall in love, if u cant, hv a new crush everyday..... Dream... Imagine... B impulsive... Go crazy... ... Flirt... Get ur heart broken... .... Dance madly... Click crazy poses... Talk constantly... Laugh loudly... Speak abusing words... Sing fav song... Shout... Wander late night... Take chances... Break d rules.... Make ur own philosophy... Smile & make others smile... Go 4 it... Feel it... Get over wid it... Live dis age!! Cz things r gonna b difficult tomorrow.
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Cant stop smiling, isnt it? :)